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52flower · 06-09-2011, 03:27 PM

I know, I know. So help me understand why I'm not able to be strong like others? He's done all of these bad things. Why don't I brush him off like so many of you can..consistent, steady, & strong, never second thoughts or looking back. Am I afraid of losing his contact in my life?? I wrote nice words to him - that he made a choice for himself & I hope he will be happy and that I needed to move on for me which would be better for both of us. When he gets silent, he makes me want to reach out to make sure he is OK & fix it if he is mad. So the solution to gaining my happy self back is not to communicate ever again?

06-09-2011, 03:27 PM	#27 (permalink)
52flower Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 154	Re: 2 years & still some agony.. normal? I know, I know. So help me understand why I'm not able to be strong like others? He's done all of these bad things. Why don't I brush him off like so many of you can..consistent, steady, & strong, never second thoughts or looking back. Am I afraid of losing his contact in my life?? I wrote nice words to him - that he made a choice for himself & I hope he will be happy and that I needed to move on for me which would be better for both of us. When he gets silent, he makes me want to reach out to make sure he is OK & fix it if he is mad. So the solution to gaining my happy self back is not to communicate ever again?