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My DH and I have been married for over 2 years now. DD is 2 years old. DH used to be more affectionate, caring, and understanding. Now, he nit-picks at me, makes me feel bad about myself, and doesn't seem to care much about what I tell him.
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Have him review or re-read for him his wedding vows to you!
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The lady cut it like a cute little girl bob. I came home and was so proud of her little haircut, but he says she looked like a boy. So, I asked him why he was so worried about it, because it seemed like such a stupid thing to be mad about. He says, "Because she's beginning to look like you."
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I assume your counselor has told you that he is angry and unhappy about something. Has your counselor explained how to open him up and say what is EATING HIM?
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I see a counselor, as well as a psychiatrist for my anxiety and depression. He refuses to go to counseling. I don't know what to do anymore.
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What do your TWO counselors say about this?????? Have they told you this is EXTREMELY DAMAGING to your DD?
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I can't fathum a divorce, because of our daughter
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Keeping a child stuck between two unhappy, angry parents is the WORST THING you can do to a child! I KNOW FOR A FACT!!
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and I think we could work through the issues, but it takes more than just one person to want to change.
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Meanwhile your child is GOING THROUGH HELL!!!
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I have to add....my DH should be a person who builds me up in character, makes me feel good about myself, is willing to help me through issues, and want to change....right? So, what happened...
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Yes, it sounds like things your counselors must have told you. Why don't they tell you what to do to get those things that you AND YOUR CHILD DESERVE?
Many things could have happened to make him this vile, angry, hostile, mean and HURT. But the thing that brings down most ppl is that they just DO NOT KNOW HOW to keep the love alive as it was the day they took their vows and make the marriage work! Whether it's laziness, stupidity, rage, sheer lack of knowledge, bad genetics, illness or what, many therapists, counselors, books and on line resources can and do TEACH ppl how to stay in love and make a marriage work FOR THE SAKE OF THEIR KIDS if nothing else.
FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR DD, I suggest you find counselors who can and will help you and your DD or read some relationship books to learn how to SAVE YOUR DD any further pain and damage in your home. try this:
fix my marriage - Google Search
good luck saving your DD from a horrible childhood....
