Originally Posted by 827Aug
What a mess....and a stressful mess it is! I'm sorry you are having to live like this. This arrangement isn't healthy for anyone.
Do you and your children have a friend or family member who can take you in? You really need a safe haven while you make some decisions. Are you on one of the Medicaid HMOs? It sounds like it. Florida Medicaid is really not providing adequate health care to its receiptants. Are you seeing a gynecologist or a general practice physician? You need to focus on your health, so you can find employment again.
BTW, I would have called the police on your SIL. And I believe I would be leaving the husband for supporting his sister's bad behavior. Unbelievable!
Hey, no I have not a friend in the world. As in real friend that would pull themselves away from a bar for 2 seconds. So no!
Its sad really. But he has all the friends in the world and I have none. Im the nagging house wife. Ive never been on a vacation, a get away, nothing. I wish! Were always just getting by. Its sad but true. Florida medicaid does suck I hate it but Im greatful for what I do have anyways even the little bit that is. Im seeing both obgyn and GPP. Ive been focusing on my health but then money comes an issue. Because since im not working he doesnt admit it but he gets pissed when he has to pay the few medical bills for me that he does. If it wasnt for me we wouldnt have food stamps. He acts sometimes like i provide nothing. I dont know. It is unbelievable and sad. My dad did report my SIL because he works for the county. Just incase something else arose. My dads all together done with that family. And I cant say I almost agree. I dont know what besides love ties me to him anymore. Its scary what we go through. This cant be normal right? I know lifes not a fairy tale but I see all other couples happy and doing fun things together. We cant even have a convo. Dont speak unless spoken to is what i feel like. I dont call him at all just so he doesnt get mad. Since he works 24/7 any time I call is business time. But its like when do i get my 2 seconds. And sometimes my roomate annoys me. Hes waiting by his window for my husband to come home to talk to him so when he walks in the door my roomie strikes a convo with him and then they get bored and off to bed. Sometimes i wanna smack my roomate. Like seriously? Are you the wife or something? Sometimes Ive assumed they were gay secretly. I hate to say that but the way they act. They never fight, there butt buddies haha! Sad, but so so true. I dont believe there gay but it has crossed my mind. Its just annoying. I know im babbling im just lost. How can we not be having sex? Why isnt he trying. Im done with making the moves. Is he not into me? Is he cheating? Well who knows