 Re: I think about divorce on a regular basis
Most of the time in life, anything worth having and keeping will require a certain amount of work. Marriage is no different.
IMO, it sounds like you were not really ready to get married. Unresolved issues from your past and his, possibly should have been resolved and laid to rest. Anytime that there are things from the past that haven't been dealt with and/or laid to rest, they will eventually creep back into your current situation.
If you get the feelings of bailing and wanting to divorce because of things that happened in past relationships, and thinking they will happen in this one as well, then yeah you might want to go ahead and divorce. Its about work, most importantly teamwork. IMO, if there are people who are not willing to try and work on their situation, then they are better off single.
Is marriage counseling an option for you both?
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