Re: I want him to want me!!!
We did have his testosterone and thyroids checked. I do think his AD meds don't help the situation, but he did admit that he's probably also holding back on sex due to commitment issues.
There is no easy solution. I just needed to vent.
I love my husband very much and accept him just the way he is. He's got a little belly now, his butt is much flatter, but I love and desire him just the same. But maybe he can't accept himself. Not sure.
The frustrating thing is that when we do have sex it is FANTASTIC and he has strong orgasms, as do I (maybe due to the infrequency!) but it just makes me want it more. And when things are good, they are great. But there are too many days that feel not so good.