| | Re: Dominance...
Hubby and I really only started enjoying sex as a couple when he began to become more dominant. At the begining it was me that initiated sex all the time and that took the lead. Then I tried using the whole ****ty little nympho routine that needed shagging among other stuff. It was quite hard for him to do as it wasn't something he had really experienced before. It took him a while to get his confidence up and to realise that he didn't need to ask permission before he touched me or initiated sex.
There's lots of little tricks and non verbal signals you can give if you want to encourage your partner. Like refusing to take your clothes off, making him do it while you progressivly put more and more effort into wriggling away. It's a bit more physical but fun.
I have mates that are in relationships where the dominant partner shifts around but to be honest if I'm in a place sexually where I'm satisfied I don't really feel the need to change.