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hurtfulgoodtimes · 06-13-2011, 04:09 PM

I do agree that counseling would probably help. As a child, both his parents abandoned him and left him with his grandparents to raise. So every time I have left, he has said that I'm leaving him like his parents. Then I feel like the bad person, so I come back. I do love him and I want to be with him, but I feel that I should be able to balance friends and him. He wont let me have a girl's night out. He starts acting weird if he sees a guy leave something on my facebook. He simply doesn't trust me, even though he swears he does. I've never cheated on him, but we live in a small area with a big mouth. They don't have much to do besides start up rumors and scan the obituaries in the local paper.

I've asked him about seeing a counselor, and that went absolutely no where. The one time he agreed to it, but quickly backed away. He changes his mind so much, I just figured he'd eventually understand and see what's driving me nuts. This can't be normal, and I'm hoping one day for him to realize it.

Am I asking the impossible?

06-13-2011, 04:09 PM	#5 (permalink)
hurtfulgoodtimes Registered User Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: USA Posts: 10	Re: No MALE friends, and female friends needs his approval. I do agree that counseling would probably help. As a child, both his parents abandoned him and left him with his grandparents to raise. So every time I have left, he has said that I'm leaving him like his parents. Then I feel like the bad person, so I come back. I do love him and I want to be with him, but I feel that I should be able to balance friends and him. He wont let me have a girl's night out. He starts acting weird if he sees a guy leave something on my facebook. He simply doesn't trust me, even though he swears he does. I've never cheated on him, but we live in a small area with a big mouth. They don't have much to do besides start up rumors and scan the obituaries in the local paper. I've asked him about seeing a counselor, and that went absolutely no where. The one time he agreed to it, but quickly backed away. He changes his mind so much, I just figured he'd eventually understand and see what's driving me nuts. This can't be normal, and I'm hoping one day for him to realize it. Am I asking the impossible?