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Homemaker_Numero_Uno · 06-14-2011, 06:45 AM

At the very least because of his position, you should contact an attorney, get things put down in writing and have the attorney send him a discrete (but documented) letter requesting no contact. Make sure it is signed for personally by this guy.

Then resume your life and put him out of your mind.

It's called damage control.
Yes, it's an expense, but the next time this guys does this, your name might come up. And if that does happen, you want to be prepared and documented as being way far decisively so out of the loop and scott free and squeaky clean having maturely distanced yourself from this so very attractive train wreck.

06-14-2011, 06:45 AM	#4 (permalink)
Homemaker_Numero_Uno Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Henniker, the only one on Earth Posts: 3,167	Re: Am the single girl - lied to, used by a married man and then dumped At the very least because of his position, you should contact an attorney, get things put down in writing and have the attorney send him a discrete (but documented) letter requesting no contact. Make sure it is signed for personally by this guy. Then resume your life and put him out of your mind. It's called damage control. Yes, it's an expense, but the next time this guys does this, your name might come up. And if that does happen, you want to be prepared and documented as being way far decisively so out of the loop and scott free and squeaky clean having maturely distanced yourself from this so very attractive train wreck.