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Old 01-15-2009, 11:15 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I have a question. I am a beer drinker. I come home after work and after the kids go to bed and have a few beers(4-6), I dont get drunk but just relaxed. It seems to help me with the stresses of everyday life( marriage, kids, work, etc). Is this bad? Something tells me that I may have a problem(only from the perception of others) but at the same time im not hurting anyone. I dont drink and drive..EVER!!! I dont drink a lot around the kids and im not a mess all the time. So whats the big deal? What wrong with having some beers?
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