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Blanca · 01-16-2009, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by tdtanner

Now Im off to bed to deal with my angry husband, cause yeah now hes mad at me because Im on here looking for adivice on how to save my marriage

My H gets mad when im on marriage forums. He used to throw little fits and go to bed (no really in the beginning this would really bother me. Id cry all night). its been some months now and he's actually really curious what i do on here. ive asked him not to read any of my posts (i say a lot of things i would never say to him...yet) and i think he's finally realizing he's missing out. Yesterday he went on while he was at work and asked me which ones i replied to. He said he felt "left out" and realized that i never talk to him anymore. well, HALLELUJAH! it only took three years and me finally ignoring his anger tantrums for him to realize this.

I used to cry all the time about my marriage too. The loneliness and disillusionment were too much sometimes. I couldnt believe this was the man that promised to love me. I just couldnt believe he would treat me so badly. It hurt so much. I really feel for you.

I know it really hurts right now, but if you can learn to distance yourself from him (emotionally and physically) it can get easier.

Im glad that website helped you. It changed me emotionally 180 degrees.