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brad · 01-17-2009, 01:29 PM

It's interesting to hear the above two women talking about "why SHOULD I have to do this and do that. It SHOULD just happen because this was the promise to me.".

Good luck with this attitude. I wish all marriages were Hollywood love stories that just flow in one linear pattern. They are not. You have to rise above yourself and your selfish desire to have the other person complete you or please your every whim.

Your next husband might have qualities that will make this one look like a prince. I'm not saying it's okay to just accept the person outright as they are but it's a start to accept them and work with them. After all is dont you wonder why you are togeather with this person and what potentially you can bring to them and vice vera?

01-17-2009, 01:29 PM	#15 (permalink)
brad Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: phoenix Posts: 178	Re: how do I tell my husband Im lonely and need his attention without........ It's interesting to hear the above two women talking about "why SHOULD I have to do this and do that. It SHOULD just happen because this was the promise to me.". Good luck with this attitude. I wish all marriages were Hollywood love stories that just flow in one linear pattern. They are not. You have to rise above yourself and your selfish desire to have the other person complete you or please your every whim. Your next husband might have qualities that will make this one look like a prince. I'm not saying it's okay to just accept the person outright as they are but it's a start to accept them and work with them. After all is dont you wonder why you are togeather with this person and what potentially you can bring to them and vice vera?