thanks guys for all the advice

and special thanks to Delphi for the links!
well after taking some time apart, i told him i cant do this anymore.
now hes telling me how we were meant to be together and how much we will regret it if we wont try one last time. and he looks as though hes so desperate...
i understand what hes saying, but im just sooooo tired of this whole thing. maybe we were meant to be together or maybe not. but i believe if we truly were, we would somehow find each other in the future. as of right now, im not strong enough to be with him anymore but he never gets it.
how can i break up with him w/o hurting him?
i really need to be alone now
