Originally Posted by ineedhelp
thank you for your reply your advice is being used solely for my own well being i was hurt then i forgave but never forgot and im having a hard time deciding to move on or try to repair this if i have a choice from her im not sure yet- just wanted to know that its okay for me to have been hurt and that i never forgot!
i can give you the answer to you question. you can forgive, but you wont ever forget. it wil continue to come up in arguments , even though you forgave because its the cause of your hurt.
and yes the feelings you have are very normal.