 Re: tired of faking it
Well I can't think of anyone better to answer this question right now than myself. I actually logged on to give the good folks that have been kind and patient enough with me lately to respond to my many questions an update on the rapid IMPROVEMENT in mine and my wifes sex life....
Heres what I'd suggest... Simple communication... BUT, and this is important, it needs to be done in a way that you're saying "LET'S improve OUR techniques with each other to enhance OUR pleasure", rather than, "You're not pleasing me, so please try this"....
If he's really interested in your satisfaction with his performance, he should respond well... Maybe not at first, but if you guys love each other, take it from me, a man who's ego was severely bruised still as little as 5 or 6 days ago... And yet right now I'm anxiously waiting for my wife to get off of work tonight, as we have no kids, and her last words this morning were, "You better NOT be asleep when I get home mister, I wanna do some more of what we did last night!!".... Amazing what that will do for a mans ego... And for a couples sex life... It took some time, but we finally got to a place where we both opened up, communicated openly, and now my confidence is thorugh the roof, and I firmly believe her when she says she can't wait intil tonight so she ca, as she put it, "Be as loud as I want with no kids here"... Keep trying even if he doesn't respond so well at first.... My wife wasn't responding well, and communication seemed to get worse before it got better, but the payoff the last few night has been well worth it for both of us... Good luck :-)
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