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bhappy3 · 01-18-2009, 08:16 PM

I just realized that this has been going on for five years, going on six. Those are going to be some hard ties to break, but you must do it. And I think I would tell your wife, too... if the girlfriend goes off the deep end when you stop daily conversation, there is no telling what she will do, and may bring your wife into it. It would be horrible for your wife to find out from said girlfriend than from you.

But then again, you know your situation best. Maybe the g/f wont' react like that, and maybe your wife will never find out.

01-18-2009, 08:16 PM	#22 (permalink)
bhappy3 Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: earth Posts: 270	Re: My GirlFriend in School Talks to me on Phone Everyday...After 15 years I just realized that this has been going on for five years, going on six. Those are going to be some hard ties to break, but you must do it. And I think I would tell your wife, too... if the girlfriend goes off the deep end when you stop daily conversation, there is no telling what she will do, and may bring your wife into it. It would be horrible for your wife to find out from said girlfriend than from you. But then again, you know your situation best. Maybe the g/f wont' react like that, and maybe your wife will never find out. __________________