| | Husband never initiates sex.
Hi, I am new to this forum. I have some concerns that I need some advice on. One of them is regarding initiating sex. I have a pretty high sex drive and while my husband is happy to have sex with me, he rarely, if ever initiates it. He is loving and romantic, he hugs and kisses me all of the time, but when it comes to sex, it would not happen more than once every couple of weeks if I did not ask for it. Can I have some input from other couples about what occurs in their marriage beds? I am unhappy about the onus for sex always being on me. It feels very unequal, also because of the situation, I feel less than desirable.
Background: We are in our 40's. My husband and I have some health issues, he more than I. We have been married for a year. We are open about sex and have no sexual hang-ups.
Please give a newbie some information and advice.