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Originally Posted by AnAvgDude  Kate,
In fact, one of my decisions (there were many) to divorce was in line with what you said. I want to teach my kids not to be subjected to disrespect by their spouse when they grow up. Someday, I will pass and not be here for them. I want to teach them courage to stand up for themselves. Thank you for your post. |
You are welcome.
to me ensuring that my boys learn how to respect others and committments is so important; especially now when they are seeing first-hand what disrespect results in.
not only are they going to miss having their father being here on a full-time basis, they have lost total respect for him and i can not even make a guess as to when that damage may be repaired if ever and eventually the youngest will understand exactly what happened. stbxh will have a very lonely life without his children and those are the consequences of his own actions.
