jenniferFl

Hello, I guess I should first introduce myself. I am a 28 year old mother to 3 boys and 1 step-daughter. I stay at home with the baby during the day and then with all three boys after they get out of school. I am trying to start up a business st home as well. Now onto my situation! I have been with my husband for almost three years now. At the beginning everything was great..exactly what I was looking for in a relationship. After about 10 months of dating I got pregnant and everything changed. It was not something either one of was expecting. Once we found out I was pregnant he became distant and did not want to have a physical relationship any longer. He told me it was because I was pregnant. Then after the baby was born he told me we were not doing anything physical because the baby was in the room, so I mover the baby to his room so we could be together at night by ourselves. That did not work either. I confronted him about our relationship and asked him why we were not talking, having sex, kissing or anything along those lines. He told me he was too busy and he had to prioritize. Ok, I understood he was busy at work, but now I felt like I was not a priority in his life. It now has been over a year and a half and we do not do anything at all. No sex, no kissing, no hugs nothing. I have tried to talk to him about it multiple times and he keeps saying there is nothing wrong.

I now have become bitter to the fact that I have a "roommate" relationship and that is it with my husband. I really would like to fix this, I refuse to live in a relationship where I do not feel loved or wanted.

I have suggested counseling and he stated "nothing is wrong, why do we need that?" I told him that if we do not get this fixed we would not last. When I said that it did not even seem like he cared. He avoids any and all discussions about our relationship. I just do not know what to do any more.

What would you suggest?

Sorry this was soo long!

Thank you.