Wow I almost forgot I had this thread!
Update on his moods though. Started seeing a counselor, we both are doing IC right now. My main focus is, trying to learn how to deal with these moods when he gets in them. Sometimes I do not know how to take them or what to do or say. For so long I was confused by his moods and even questioned myself.
When I spoke with the counselor about his moods, the first thing she mentioned was he sounded like he was displaying some traits of BPD! I was actually shocked because I felt she might say something about possible bipolar. But she didn't, it was BPD. If so, it helps to explain these moods etc. Regardless though, I need to learn how to react and the proper way to handle certain issues when they arise.