| | Re: Wife finds sex unnecessary and disgusting
It's worth noting that in previous arguments we've had regarding sex she's been extremely upset because she feels that she is bending over backwards to accommodate me once a week. In her eyes she believes that she is doing something completely for my benefit. She finds no pleasure in "physical pleasure", a statement that baffles me. I consider myself a good communicator and do all the things that should be considered turn ons (making time for her, spontaneous romanticism) - much more than I think 90% of other blokes would do. She says she loves my sensitive side so I don't think I need to "Man-up". In any case, I work out, lift weights, do running twice a week etc :-)
My wife would never initiate a conversation about sex and when I do, she has really nothing to say about it anyway. I can say something like "Do you prefer it if I do this rather than that" and she will just reply, "it doesn't really bother me".