Loving_Hubby

It's worth noting that in previous arguments we've had regarding sex she's been extremely upset because she feels that she is bending over backwards to accommodate me once a week. In her eyes she believes that she is doing something completely for my benefit. She finds no pleasure in "physical pleasure", a statement that baffles me. I consider myself a good communicator and do all the things that should be considered turn ons (making time for her, spontaneous romanticism) - much more than I think 90% of other blokes would do. She says she loves my sensitive side so I don't think I need to "Man-up". In any case, I work out, lift weights, do running twice a week etc :-)

My wife would never initiate a conversation about sex and when I do, she has really nothing to say about it anyway. I can say something like "Do you prefer it if I do this rather than that" and she will just reply, "it doesn't really bother me".