| | Re: Finding closure....
Maybe you could write him a letter saying everything you need to get off your chest.
In my divorce I felt like I had zero closure. I wanted something he couldn't give me-- a reasonable explanation as to WHY all this BS went down and WHY his words didn't match his actions.
In the end I realized I was chasing a ghost. In the end I realized my closure was accepting I would never get the closure I wanted/sought.
That was my closure.