jenniferFl

I admit I have been really angry recently and have been short with him. At this point, everything bothers me. He is not the father to my older boys. I have talked with them about the way they feel things are going in our house(I feel my children get a say in my relationship, they are my main priority in life) and they feel like my husband does not like them. They feel he is mean to them too much and yells at the for nothing. I am so drawn between what to do. I have not mentioned this before but my husband is 40 and soo set in his ways. When we first got together he moved in with me at my home, but since I was renting and he owned a home we mutually decided that we would be better off just moving over to his home. While we were at my home he was nothing like he is now. He was easy going, loving, attentive and wanted to play with my boys, but now he is uptight, distant and is compulsively cleaning the home. He can not have anything out of place or he starts getting upset and cussing. The children can not even have their room to themselves to play because when they have the toys out and he comes home my husband sends they out of their room so he can put everything away.

As for me I know I have been very difficult to live with the last few months. I have been *****y to say the least. I do not know how not to be mad at this situation. I told myself after my first divorce that I was never going to stay in a bad relationship. That things needed to be fixed or I was gone. Now I am the exact situation that I never wanted to be in. I am so confused!


Thank you for listening to me ramble, I have no one else to talk to.