Originally Posted by swedish
I would appreciate the honesty as he knew you would be upset but put his respect for your honest relationship above keeping himself out of 'hot water'. Since you appear to have different views on art and what is appropriate or not, perhaps this is where you should focus your thoughts and if he plans to stay within your comfort zone going forward he can make some changes (discuss wardrobe up front) to avoid these situations down the road.
This type of advice works for me. I started to get a little freaked out yesterday when someone asked me to evaluate if I could be with a man that had different views then me. I see the post is gone today so I suppose who posted it had second thoughts about it being helpful. I did not come on here to entertain the idea of not being with my husband. I adore my husband and maybe that is why I felt so hurt. I wanted advice on how to heal my hurt feelings. Thanks to those offering constructive advice and respecting my conservative views for what they are even if you don't agree.