The DEFINITION of a committed spouse is one who actually cares if he/she hurts the feelings of their spouse.
Now, your spouse may need counseling to shrink their zone of sensitivity, but that's something you work on together.
You simply don't say, "I know this hurts you, LIVE WITH IT."
Or, as some have found, perhaps he won't.
Originally Posted by Entropy3000
LOL. There is a loving faithful wife attitude. It is of course of major concern in a marriage how your SO feels about what you do.
Of course the man can solve this problem readily. By letting his spouse know this is unacceptable and act on it.
This is very tough however since he is already in love with his wife. If there are children he has every right to be more assertive here. She knows she will keep the kids and then can use that against him if it gets contentious.
Mr Longface ... more respect for this guy. FEMDOM here.