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Originally Posted by caughtdreaming Thank you, yes I am going through A LOT of trauma right now, no one in my family seems to realize it or understand. |
People who have never been through an unwanted separation/divorce have NO idea how very messed up it is. It's an awful experience to go through.
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Originally Posted by caughtdreaming I feel like my life is over. |
This is actually a very "normal" feeling to have, believe it or not. There were some days where I felt there was nothing else in my life. But ... there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
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Originally Posted by caughtdreaming . I don't understand how someone who said they loved you everyday for the past 6 years can just stop loving you. Or not even miss you at all. I don't get that part? . |
It is hard to try to grasp because it's so opposite from what you are living right now. Thing is, don't try to get in his head. Mind-reading will not help you at all. Focus on the here & now and your recovery.