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draconis · 01-08-2008, 01:18 PM

I wouldn't worry to much about it, atleast she got it out of her system. Let's face it I am sure that if she nit picked your past there would be a few things less then perfect she could "worry" about too. Did you experiment with drugs, underage drinking, sex before marriage, loss of faith, depression etc. The point isn't what she did but what she will do while with you. If she isn't into the party scene etc then let it go. People do change, many of us evolve over time and make mistakes or do things that sem right at the time until you are later in life. Those things may have shaped her but maybe it got out any demons before your current state of your relationship. Accept her for who she is now, holding what she was like before you in that respect isn't fair to her.

draconis

01-08-2008, 01:18 PM	#4 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,501	Re: created my own prison I wouldn't worry to much about it, atleast she got it out of her system. Let's face it I am sure that if she nit picked your past there would be a few things less then perfect she could "worry" about too. Did you experiment with drugs, underage drinking, sex before marriage, loss of faith, depression etc. The point isn't what she did but what she will do while with you. If she isn't into the party scene etc then let it go. People do change, many of us evolve over time and make mistakes or do things that sem right at the time until you are later in life. Those things may have shaped her but maybe it got out any demons before your current state of your relationship. Accept her for who she is now, holding what she was like before you in that respect isn't fair to her. draconis