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firsttimer25 · 06-30-2011, 08:34 AM

Thanks for your insight. I think my problem is that he has done so much to hurt me over the past year -- he forced me to tell my parents that I was raped as a teenager (even though I told him I did not want to) ... he told my mother that he thought i was cheating on him (i wasn't and they aren't even close). Those 2 things made my parents disown me and my dad died just weeks after that happened and I never got to set the record straight with him because my husband chose to sabatoge me.

I just have a hard time sitting there listening to him cry over wetting his pants when I have had to deal with the death of my dad and being told I wasn't welcome at his funeral because my DH manipulated me. I am so resentful...that maybe this is a sign that I have no compassion left for him ....after being hurt so badly.

06-30-2011, 08:34 AM	#5 (permalink)
firsttimer25 Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 67	Re: Disturbing couples therapy session Thanks for your insight. I think my problem is that he has done so much to hurt me over the past year -- he forced me to tell my parents that I was raped as a teenager (even though I told him I did not want to) ... he told my mother that he thought i was cheating on him (i wasn't and they aren't even close). Those 2 things made my parents disown me and my dad died just weeks after that happened and I never got to set the record straight with him because my husband chose to sabatoge me. I just have a hard time sitting there listening to him cry over wetting his pants when I have had to deal with the death of my dad and being told I wasn't welcome at his funeral because my DH manipulated me. I am so resentful...that maybe this is a sign that I have no compassion left for him ....after being hurt so badly.