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Acorn · 06-30-2011, 08:48 AM

You have certainly been through a lot... but really, he can't "force" you to tell your parents something if you have appropriate boundaries, he didn't disown you, and he is not responsible for your dad dying. The cheating accusation is a bit over the top IMO, but people react irrationally if they believe they are being cheated on or if the marriage is in danger. That seems something that is forgivable over time, at least to me.

Maybe it would be better to continue your IC and work on yourself a bit for a while. And yes, you should go if you really think you are checked out.

06-30-2011, 08:48 AM	#7 (permalink)
Acorn Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 1,241	Re: Disturbing couples therapy session You have certainly been through a lot... but really, he can't "force" you to tell your parents something if you have appropriate boundaries, he didn't disown you, and he is not responsible for your dad dying. The cheating accusation is a bit over the top IMO, but people react irrationally if they believe they are being cheated on or if the marriage is in danger. That seems something that is forgivable over time, at least to me. Maybe it would be better to continue your IC and work on yourself a bit for a while. And yes, you should go if you really think you are checked out.