Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - I can't control my mind. I kept thinking about other men. Anyone experience this?

8yearscheating · 07-01-2011, 10:08 AM

See personal counselor (IC) now. You should also discuss this with your husband in an open and honest conversation. The two of you have issues to address together so you don't fell this need. BY talking to him, you will take that important first step in honesty and openess and hopefull he will take it as a wake up call to work together. You should also consider marriage counseling MC once you two talk. Together, you can fight off these urges andhe can help you. Expect anger and make the first conversation drag out, stop when it starts to get too emotional on his part and take a time out for him to cool down. DO NOT take his anger as he doesn't care or take it to heart. Give him time to think.

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8yearscheating Banned Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: The Great Lake State Posts: 1,416	Re: I can't control my mind. I kept thinking about other men. Anyone experience this See personal counselor (IC) now. You should also discuss this with your husband in an open and honest conversation. The two of you have issues to address together so you don't fell this need. BY talking to him, you will take that important first step in honesty and openess and hopefull he will take it as a wake up call to work together. You should also consider marriage counseling MC once you two talk. Together, you can fight off these urges andhe can help you. Expect anger and make the first conversation drag out, stop when it starts to get too emotional on his part and take a time out for him to cool down. DO NOT take his anger as he doesn't care or take it to heart. Give him time to think.