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brad · 01-24-2009, 03:49 PM

Remember he is acting only how he has been conditioned and is capable of acting. People can call it manipulation and you dont deserve it blah blah blah.

But you seem to have an inate ability to work with and help your husband. Like MT says there has been progress.

You sound like a wonder wife who is not playing the victim role but rising above that and is helping another human being achieve something they previously have never felt before.

Threatening to run away is your husband's defense mechanism. Nothing more.

01-24-2009, 03:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
brad Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: phoenix Posts: 178	Re: Nervous. Going to try to communicate with H Remember he is acting only how he has been conditioned and is capable of acting. People can call it manipulation and you dont deserve it blah blah blah. But you seem to have an inate ability to work with and help your husband. Like MT says there has been progress. You sound like a wonder wife who is not playing the victim role but rising above that and is helping another human being achieve something they previously have never felt before. Threatening to run away is your husband's defense mechanism. Nothing more.