| | Re: No Contact?
He is running a game on you. His game is to have all of the comforts of home: sex when he does not feel like going through the trouble of going out for the evening.
Someone to share expenses, cook, clean, reassurance that there is a fall back person when he needs to feel loved. If he pulls this off it will be another notch in his player belt. He will probably brag to his friends to win favorable status and their envy.
Is that you?
You know him, does he seem like a good risk for a mutually loving relationship? He is selfish, narcissistic and cruel. He may change but that may take years. My way of thinking is that you are not his mother and you dont need to stand by and be a doormat.
What ever you do, put yourself first, do not put your future in the hands of someone who does not care about you.
He will not love you if you buy his player game, he will pat himself on the back for his skills. He will lose what little respect he has for you if you make life so convient for him.
He would not do the same for any women. He has no respect for women I'll bet. I'd say cut your loses. By the time he realizes that he will not find a woman who loves him the way you did, you will be involved with a man who cherishes you.
He is playing you. Don't listen to his words look at actions that will tell you how much he loves and cares about you. Let him know his game is weak and he lost. Protect yourself and perserve your self respect and dignity.
"Hey some guys need a book to find the G-spot. It was intuitive for me. Some take the road less travelled." Enthropy 3000