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mayday · 01-09-2008, 02:48 PM

I sent ths article to my SO. He did not reply. so I asked what he thought. He said it was nice. I asked further. he did not think it applied to us as he thought we had balanance. I see our relationshp as in paragraph 3 most of the focus on "we" and very little on YOU or Me. I have been tryng to tellhim I need more Me time. this has been a struggle. I have finely have been able to shower alone and I have been able to go to the store alone once. I still need more Me time with out feeling like I have to fight for it.

How do I get him to understand I need this time for me as well as time with him.

now he is over planning time together. I feel like he is doing this so I dont have time to spend on my own. I am going crazy.

01-09-2008, 02:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
mayday Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 1	Re: Balanced Relationships: You, Me and We \| by: Lisa Kift, MA I sent ths article to my SO. He did not reply. so I asked what he thought. He said it was nice. I asked further. he did not think it applied to us as he thought we had balanance. I see our relationshp as in paragraph 3 most of the focus on "we" and very little on YOU or Me. I have been tryng to tellhim I need more Me time. this has been a struggle. I have finely have been able to shower alone and I have been able to go to the store alone once. I still need more Me time with out feeling like I have to fight for it. How do I get him to understand I need this time for me as well as time with him. now he is over planning time together. I feel like he is doing this so I dont have time to spend on my own. I am going crazy.