| | Re: Wife cheated, i'm alone to deal with it.
Women, like men, sometimes cheat for the sex and excitement. At certain points in their lives and within their relationships they really want it and sometimes they fail to resist these urges. As ugly as this reality is, I think that this is pretty normal and it doesn't necessarily mean they are bad people.
However, your wife's actions, even if unintended, have completely ruined your marriage. And I don't say this lightly. She is now carrying his child and having an abortion will ruin the relationship and having the child will ruin the marriage. You have no options but to end the marriage now. If she didn't get pregnant, you would have the option of forgiving her for completely hurting you as a man (he was dripping out of her as you were driving her home). This is pretty bad but I don't think that this would necessarily mean the end. The pregnancy, however, does. Assuming it was unintended, it was a case of very bad luck. But sometimes fate can be cruel.