Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Nervous. Going to try to communicate with H

LucyInSC · 01-26-2009, 02:19 PM

I do appreciate each response to my post. Junebug I know that you know what I'm going through. I'm also glad to have a male perspective. Last night I lit a candle, got into bed and invited my H to join me. While I held him I told him how much I thought he had changed. That when a marriage is in trouble it is never one person's fault. That I was trying to change everything I knew of to make things better. I told him that I wanted to forget about the phone calls but I was having a hard time letting go of it because he never gave me a believable explanation. (then I feel his shoulders tense) I told him that I knew it was difficult for him to tell me about it but it would help me if he did. He did not say one word. He tried to have sex with me. He couldn't. He said he had a stomachache, went to the bathroom then came back and went to sleep. Today the wall is up again. But I tried. At least he didn't threaten to leave me.

01-26-2009, 02:19 PM	#8 (permalink)
LucyInSC Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: South Carolina Posts: 71	Re: Nervous. Going to try to communicate with H I do appreciate each response to my post. Junebug I know that you know what I'm going through. I'm also glad to have a male perspective. Last night I lit a candle, got into bed and invited my H to join me. While I held him I told him how much I thought he had changed. That when a marriage is in trouble it is never one person's fault. That I was trying to change everything I knew of to make things better. I told him that I wanted to forget about the phone calls but I was having a hard time letting go of it because he never gave me a believable explanation. (then I feel his shoulders tense) I told him that I knew it was difficult for him to tell me about it but it would help me if he did. He did not say one word. He tried to have sex with me. He couldn't. He said he had a stomachache, went to the bathroom then came back and went to sleep. Today the wall is up again. But I tried. At least he didn't threaten to leave me.