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sfatna1 · 01-10-2008, 02:12 PM

Hi,

We have been married for a year now, yet we have no intimacy between us ( probably we were in different countries and it was an arranged marriage).

Now, we have been together, however she is not interested in sex, every time anything happens she tell me that she would not have sex with me, this puts me off.
Like in November we had a fight, she told me that since i want certain things to happen in certain manner, she wants to have sex with me only when we are ready for children.
This sounded in sane to me and we have been living apart from that time.
Firstly we were talking less, i spoke to her on the new year that we should have marriage counseling and she refused and said that by talking to her about this I have put her off again.
Ever since my marriage I have never seen passion in her, a simple thing she never has told me " I love you" , on teasing she mentioned that she would tell me only after 10 years she is convinced that I am nice person... all these small things are now getting on my nerves....she does not want to do anything intimate with me, says that she will think only when i have a good physique......never given me a gift in the whole year....
Please advice...
Cheers
sfatna1:

01-10-2008, 02:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
sfatna1 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 3	Help Hi, We have been married for a year now, yet we have no intimacy between us ( probably we were in different countries and it was an arranged marriage). Now, we have been together, however she is not interested in sex, every time anything happens she tell me that she would not have sex with me, this puts me off. Like in November we had a fight, she told me that since i want certain things to happen in certain manner, she wants to have sex with me only when we are ready for children. This sounded in sane to me and we have been living apart from that time. Firstly we were talking less, i spoke to her on the new year that we should have marriage counseling and she refused and said that by talking to her about this I have put her off again. Ever since my marriage I have never seen passion in her, a simple thing she never has told me " I love you" , on teasing she mentioned that she would tell me only after 10 years she is convinced that I am nice person... all these small things are now getting on my nerves....she does not want to do anything intimate with me, says that she will think only when i have a good physique......never given me a gift in the whole year.... Please advice... Cheers sfatna1: