| | Re: My husband wants a mmf threesome, does that mean he doesn't love me any more?
Honey, I am so sorry you have been used in the past and that you are afraid that you husband is making you feel unloved and used. Have you had any therapy? You might benefit from seeking counseling from a psychologist who can help you process your past and set healthy boundaries for you now so that you are never in a position of being used and abused again. Although, I am so happy that your husband's request caused you to take notice right away.
The bottom line is that you should not do ANYTHING that does not make you feel comfortable. You have rights as a human being to not be forced or manipulated to do anything. That is not your job in this life - even for your husband. If he loves you, he will respect that you don't want to be passed around.
My husband thinks that men who want to have a threesome with another guy have some attraction to men (bicurious or gay).