| | Re: Interpret this ladies....
You DO need to be cautious. But you also need to be open.
She is currently operating under "Fake it, til you make it."
Simply keep your perspective. She is trying. You should try too.
Keep your emotions in check. You shouldn't go "all in" just yet, but you do need to demonstrate some acceptance and reciprocity. Your restrained behavior and NOT trying to talk it out to decide where it's headed is paying off in spades.
She needs to keep working until her investment in her marriage ... and YOU, isn't just for show.
"I figured out they were serious eventually but was thinking it was ridiculous. I wanted to kick them in the balls." - Trenton