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Soupnutz · 07-06-2011, 06:33 PM

Hi all, I just joined and this is my first post so let me give a little background info.

Me and my wife have been married for ten years, I am 32 and she is 34. We are both the second person that each other has been with sexually. She was in a serious relationship from the time she was 18 to 21. She was raised in a househould of devout Jehovah's witnesses until she was around 15 then moved out to live with her grandparents and stopped practicing the religion. As I said in the thread title she has never had an orgasm. She doesn't masturbate or isn't comfortable using any kind of toys. She says she wants to badly have an orgasm and I've gotten her close, but whether it's oral, digitally, or through intercourse everytime she is close she makes me stop and pushes me away. I ask her why and she says that it is uncomfortable and she doesn't like the way that it feels, (not painful though). She says that she enjoys sex and it feels good, we both want her to be able to orgasm but neither of us is sure about what to do.

Could it be from hammered in religious beliefs about sex being for procreation and not for enjoyment? I don't know. According to my wife and her cousin her sister has also never had an orgasm. Is it just a problem that some women have.

07-06-2011, 06:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
Soupnutz Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 45	Wife has never had an orgasm Hi all, I just joined and this is my first post so let me give a little background info. Me and my wife have been married for ten years, I am 32 and she is 34. We are both the second person that each other has been with sexually. She was in a serious relationship from the time she was 18 to 21. She was raised in a househould of devout Jehovah's witnesses until she was around 15 then moved out to live with her grandparents and stopped practicing the religion. As I said in the thread title she has never had an orgasm. She doesn't masturbate or isn't comfortable using any kind of toys. She says she wants to badly have an orgasm and I've gotten her close, but whether it's oral, digitally, or through intercourse everytime she is close she makes me stop and pushes me away. I ask her why and she says that it is uncomfortable and she doesn't like the way that it feels, (not painful though). She says that she enjoys sex and it feels good, we both want her to be able to orgasm but neither of us is sure about what to do. Could it be from hammered in religious beliefs about sex being for procreation and not for enjoyment? I don't know. According to my wife and her cousin her sister has also never had an orgasm. Is it just a problem that some women have.