| | Re: Can I convince him ?
What makes it hard Vivea is the children. I never thought I would tolerate cheating. But when they are kids involved you have to stay in touch with that person whether you like it or not. I guess it does not help the fact that both our spouses never gave us the impression that anything was wrong(let alone say it) and this all came out of the blue.
For me I find it that it's not that I want him back so much but I just want him to experience the same amount of pain he has inflicted on me because I think that's the only way they can realize what they have done.
The karma for screwing over a good girl is the b!tch you end up with