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Gtarist62 · 01-28-2009, 11:12 AM

[QUOTE=lollipop;5431][QUOTE=stav;4700]Now you are just being silly, you asked for our input, you are getting it... you can't just have the bits you like!

Stav you sound like a very smart woman. You hit it right on the nose. I was in a similar situation and that is exactly how I felt. I didn't hate the other kids, they were cutie pies, but my husband soon to be ex would feel guilty about them and ignore my 1yr old when they were around. For example...He took all 3 kids out with him and I met them there and saw that while he was playing with his older kids my 11month old at the time was crawling around unsupervised and his back was turned to her.

There is always 2 sides to a story, gtarist62, you sound like a difficult man to get along with, and for the record women sense things. When you sneak around like taking your kids when she is at work instead of being honest it causes distrust. It's easier to get over an arguement then to gain trust again. She probably felt like you were hiding something.

For the record, "Lollipop," if your husband is divorcing you because you won't let him see his daughter and you never wanted his kids around, the problem is YOU. You sound like a difficult person to get along with. Maybe that's why you're getting divorced.

01-28-2009, 11:12 AM	#40 (permalink)
Gtarist62 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Fort Lauderdale, FL Posts: 15	Re: My Wife Hates My Kids [QUOTE=lollipop;5431][QUOTE=stav;4700]Now you are just being silly, you asked for our input, you are getting it... you can't just have the bits you like! Stav you sound like a very smart woman. You hit it right on the nose. I was in a similar situation and that is exactly how I felt. I didn't hate the other kids, they were cutie pies, but my husband soon to be ex would feel guilty about them and ignore my 1yr old when they were around. For example...He took all 3 kids out with him and I met them there and saw that while he was playing with his older kids my 11month old at the time was crawling around unsupervised and his back was turned to her. There is always 2 sides to a story, gtarist62, you sound like a difficult man to get along with, and for the record women sense things. When you sneak around like taking your kids when she is at work instead of being honest it causes distrust. It's easier to get over an arguement then to gain trust again. She probably felt like you were hiding something. For the record, "Lollipop," if your husband is divorcing you because you won't let him see his daughter and you never wanted his kids around, the problem is YOU. You sound like a difficult person to get along with. Maybe that's why you're getting divorced.