| | Re: Please give advise-marriage help!!
You are the spouse that crossed the line----you are the one that should be showing heavy remorse, be contrite, do all the heavy lifting
As was said above----compliments are just words----show some action---give her flowers, take her out on dates, cook a nice meal once a week for her---help her with the cleaning and the laundary----do whatever it takes to make her fall back in love with you
Have a good solid sit down with her, and talk about things----do you ever have face to face talks, where you get everything out----if not start doing so, and do it regularly
Remember----as far as you are concerned to her, you have no credibility in the trust dept.----IT IS UP TO YOU TO WIN HER BACK----spend MORE time winning her back, then you did cheating on her!!!!!!!!