Originally Posted by Justnewlyseperated
I do have kids, that is a big reason I am trying to save this.
Yes, I am really sorry man, I don't know what I was thinking on my last post. I know you had all those bad things happen to you including you son getting hit by a car. I am really sorry for posting that question.
I think that working 80 hours a week when she has kids is not a good idea. She said she cut off the other guy but did you ask her about the 530 text messages? Or are you worried that she will be even more pissed if she thinks you are spying on her personal business with regards to the texts? If she is still texting with this guy, I wouldn't be agraid or concerned about letting her know you are aware of it. You are worried about the kids, that's understandable, but you should also take care of yourself for your kids sake. It isn't good for them to be around a toxic relationship. I really hope you can find some peace and moments of calm in all this mess. Only you can decide where you want to take this; if you think she is being honest about the other guy, cut her some slack, she is working to better herself. If you feel as if she is stringing you along and is still in an EA with this other guy, then step up and confront her about the texting. Hopefully you have some proof of these texts, or you are absolutely sure they are what you think they are or this will throw her completely to the other side. I wish you the best.