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the guy · 07-12-2011, 04:33 PM

Look up the " doing a 180" and "how to fight an affair "

She is in a big time fantasy and it will only be a matter of time before she comes crawling back, it may take some time for her to get out of the fog, but if you do the research you can get her out sooner then later.

I suggest #1, you make this affair as uncomfortable and as inconvienent as possible. Stop letting her have the kids at OM home, expose it to thier employer with the "I love you text". In addition show these text messeges to her family and ask them for there support in repairing the marriage.

Again there is a few more avenues you can take to push her away, in what I mean is the more you push the harder it will be on her.

See, it was all fun and games and the taboo thrill of having a lover and a husband was all good. Now that you confronted her and it is all out in the open it will no longer be exciting, it will be shameful and a distructive reality that her behavior is breaking up a marriage.

No matter if its not a PA and she keeps insisting that nothing is going on (which is BS) you still have the evidence that she loves some one other then her husband.

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the guy Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: CA Posts: 7,295	Re: Recently separated as of yesterday Look up the " doing a 180" and "how to fight an affair " She is in a big time fantasy and it will only be a matter of time before she comes crawling back, it may take some time for her to get out of the fog, but if you do the research you can get her out sooner then later. I suggest #1, you make this affair as uncomfortable and as inconvienent as possible. Stop letting her have the kids at OM home, expose it to thier employer with the "I love you text". In addition show these text messeges to her family and ask them for there support in repairing the marriage. Again there is a few more avenues you can take to push her away, in what I mean is the more you push the harder it will be on her. See, it was all fun and games and the taboo thrill of having a lover and a husband was all good. Now that you confronted her and it is all out in the open it will no longer be exciting, it will be shameful and a distructive reality that her behavior is breaking up a marriage. No matter if its not a PA and she keeps insisting that nothing is going on (which is BS) you still have the evidence that she loves some one other then her husband.