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Originally Posted by 343
now do u think its wrong of me to ask her to get rid of somethings or fix things that give me that trigger? like she has not gone through things to get rid of pictures. and uses her exes name for a password on things. not because she wants him back, but because she hasnt thought much about it.
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O.K. you need to stop fixating on her past, she's chosen to be with you, not them...believe her when she tells you she loves you. If you don't and you keep on with your insecurities about her past, you may get exactly what you're most afraid of, losing her. Put the shoe on the other foot, how would you feel if she was constantly hounding you about your exes?
That said, let's focus on her for a minute. Out of respect for your feelings, she should definitely stop pushing your buttons. She knows these types of things drive you crazy, but she continues to do them and ignore your wishes. Where is this coming from? Is she simply being defiant or does she enjoy getting you going? Take a look at that and question that.