mommyof2

one child already that's seven and one of the way I'm due in April. I been with my husband now for over two years. I can't take it anymore I'm at my wits end with everything that's been taking place. He sits and plays games all the time day and night. He won't help me do anything around the house no dishes laundry clean up nothing. When he gets home from work it's the first thing he does is get on the computer, it's the first thing he does when he gets up. We talk here and there but it's no fun having to talk to someone when they are busy with a game or watching wrestling. We got married almost two months ago and I have had some problems with this pregnancy being sick all the time and a lot of swelling. He is in the military and we were supposed to go over to the base so I can get my Id card and do the Tri care stuff. I'm still waiting I'm getting to far along to be screwing around. I been going to the health dept for visits in the meantime when I found out I was pregnant. We never make it over to the base on his days off he will stay up all night long and want to sleep all day. If I wake him up I swear I'll hear about it for hours and he is useless at that point because he is so tired he can't think or really function and he just sits there and does not move. I been thinking about leaving him sense Thanksgiving I was cooking and cleaning and he was upstairs playing games and on porn. He came down twice the whole day to get something to eat and that was it other than that I sat downstairs by myself the whole time. For months that all he did was sit up in our bedroom day in and day out and play games. I sat down here day after day night after night alone. Then he got a dog I was like great. I knew he would not take care of the dog and he never wants to take it out the dog chases my cat and jumps all over me. I don't like that because I'm pregnant I don't want a 60 pound dog running over my belly when I'm trying to sleep. So I stopped sleeping upstairs months ago and started sleeping on the floor. Because he refused to lock up his dog so it would stop jumping all over the place. The dog is constantly ruining me and my daughters things it chews everything it will go to the bathroom on everything. I take it out but when he is home he won't and will there you go. He will wear the same clothes for weeks before washing them. He won't shower on his days off and I'm not even sure he uses soap when he does shower for work. He does not own a toothbrush so he does not brush his teeth. All he wants to do is sleep eat and play games. He won't take out the trash me and my daughter do. I have ask him over and over to change the cat box it would be days until he would so being pregnant I have to do it anyway. I just can't take it anymore. I have tried to talk to him about it he gets really angry and starts yelling and says it's my fault and basically he does nothing wrong and everything is my fault. I talked to some family and they have seen all this first hand and they support me if I want to leave. I do want to leave I have tried everything and feel there is no help to this situation. I can't live like this with a dirty person who won't do anything it's driving me crazy. We don't have sex at all if I touch him he will say what are you doing get off me or push me off and so forth. That really bothers me he does that all the time. It's like were married but yet I'm not allowed to touch you or do anything with you. So I give up does anyone have any advice on what I should do and why he might be like this any opinions would be great thanks for reading.