Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Mistake to leave someone bc of something you think they might do?

saveamarriage101 · 07-14-2011, 01:06 PM

Hey there,

I know that this is hard. But if you still love each other there is still hope. You are trying hard, and good job on your part. Try to get some professional advice. Marriage counseling or something.

My big thing is though try and talk to him about this. Let him know how your feeling and see if he is willing to change his actions. If he isn't wanting to stop watching porn and checking out other girls. Then you do what is right to make YOURSELF happy ok?

If he wants to change his habits, great! Then you guys can starting working on it together, get MC. If the love is still in the air and you both are willing to work on the marriage, you can do it.

But do not end it cause you think he might cheat. That is unfair. And won't help you any either.

07-14-2011, 01:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
saveamarriage101 Banned Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 38	Re: Mistake to leave someone bc of something you think they might do? Hey there, I know that this is hard. But if you still love each other there is still hope. You are trying hard, and good job on your part. Try to get some professional advice. Marriage counseling or something. My big thing is though try and talk to him about this. Let him know how your feeling and see if he is willing to change his actions. If he isn't wanting to stop watching porn and checking out other girls. Then you do what is right to make YOURSELF happy ok? If he wants to change his habits, great! Then you guys can starting working on it together, get MC. If the love is still in the air and you both are willing to work on the marriage, you can do it. But do not end it cause you think he might cheat. That is unfair. And won't help you any either.