| | Re: my husband kissed someone else....
Tell her husband about the affair (without letting your husband or the OW know).
Only you can decide if you want him back but if you decide to reconcile, youneed to list out CLEARLY what he needs to do in order for you to even consider reconciliation.
By the way, it's good you took a hard stance with him cause he knows you are NOT f*cking around. Good for you for NOT being a doormat.
You may want to copy/paste this into the Coping with Infidelity thread.