txgirl

oh as for signs.... NONE..

i am a complete expert due to my previous marriage on all the red flags... you know the private phone calls, exiting the room when the phone rings... the unaccounted time... the subtle change in attitude... the lies, or explanations that just don't add up... and i saw nothing... he leaves his phone around, answers all calls in front of me... we are both on his fb page talking to family in chat... culturally we generally kiss another person on the cheek when we meet them and say good-bye, he was always very careful with any women, or friends of mine, and always gave his hand and pulled away from anything like that... he was always soooo careful. even when we are out.. i secretly try to catch him looking at girls, like most men do... and i have never caught him. i usually point out some clantilly clad girl and he just laughs at me and says why do i point her out for him to see.. that he doesn't wan't to...

so not a single sign.. and it is just in my nature to observe and be a little wary of anything because of what i lived through for years... so unless i was in an abyss and missed something.. but i know i didn't...