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MakinOurWay · 07-17-2011, 07:39 AM

Those two examples you list above are discouraging and unhealthy. If you hadn't known she was having an affair previously, those are concrete evidence she is not invested in growing as a couple and is likely examining ways to get away with an affair.

You're showing incredible restraint in not fully engaging her to "make" her see things from your perspective. I'd bore her to death and create a further wedge with endless filibustering about how I'm right and she's wrong and can she not see it now?

07-17-2011, 07:39 AM	#360 (permalink)
MakinOurWay Registered User Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 14	Re: Interpret this ladies.... Those two examples you list above are discouraging and unhealthy. If you hadn't known she was having an affair previously, those are concrete evidence she is not invested in growing as a couple and is likely examining ways to get away with an affair. You're showing incredible restraint in not fully engaging her to "make" her see things from your perspective. I'd bore her to death and create a further wedge with endless filibustering about how I'm right and she's wrong and can she not see it now?