Hi
I wish I could offer you some advice but I cant. I just wanted to say I hear you. I too have been married for 17yrs and wont go into my story but I always wanted better for my own 8 kids after watching my own mother verbally abused for years. I am married to a man who works full-time, has never contributed to a bill or a birthday in all the time we have been married but who swears blind he loves me whilst calling our 16yr old a loser for having dreams and ambition.
My children are being brought up thankfully with little input from there father, my kids are allowed there hopes and dreams and will get better than they can dream of.
We mums have a tough job, best that we can do, hold out for the quiet moments and not forget once in a while that we do get it right, if only for our kids and not ourselves..
serendipity
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